Misery loves company

Dang, last night I couldn't fall asleep because one of my neighbors were having an "old fashion Harlem throw down." They were at it big time!  Yelling at each other, bitching about stupid shit...the works.  Wonder if they know that their paper thin walls allow everybody and their dogs to involuntarily listen into their miserable life.  Not everybody wanna stay up all nite! Dammit, ladies....you can't make a man love you.  If he cheats on you, hits you, curses at you, disrespects you in any way, LEAVE HIM! Don't stick around and let him step all over you. What's wrong with you?!?  Do you not love yourself?  Look, if you don't love yourself, NOBODY can love you, CAPICHE?  To the ones who married for the little money that he got, his pennies are not worth the beat down.  Move on and get some self respect.  The best way to love yourself is to make yourself worth something.  Get educated, start a business, volunteer, sign for pottery or crochet........don't just sit around and be a nobody. Don't get mad when he starts treating you like a nobody.  It's human.  You'll only respect someone when he/she got something to respect.  Sitting around looking cute won't get you anywhere especially when you don't have much above your shoulders.  Dammit.